Behind the ear, a butterfly is particularly discreet and can be shown or concealed depending on the hairstyle.
Small usually works better
The space is limited. A minimalist design therefore often looks more balanced than a highly detailed one.
Test the position
Try out slightly different heights beforehand and photograph the position from the side.

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